Relationships — Be It for a Day or a Lifetime, They Always Demand Effort
Relationships — Be It for a Day or a Lifetime, They Always Demand Effort
✍️ By Rupesh Ranjan
Relationships... A small word with a universe of meaning.
Whether a relationship lasts just a day, a few weeks, or an entire lifetime — one thing never changes: it takes effort. Real, sincere, and consistent effort. And not the kind that comes from strategy or cleverness, but from the heart.
Just staying connected isn’t a real relationship...
Some people believe that texting daily, exchanging sweet words, or meeting once in a while is enough to maintain a bond. But the truth is, relationships are like plants — they need daily care, emotional nourishment, and the sunlight of trust.
If you’re always trying to prove yourself right, being manipulative, or acting too smart — the relationship slowly begins to die.
In a bond, "we" is far more important than "I". Until that “we” is born, the relationship remains only a surface-level formality.
Can’t handle a relationship? Then prepare to live alone...
Yes, it sounds harsh — but it’s the truth.
If you don't know how to nurture a relationship, if you keep making excuses, if you're only in it on your terms — then maybe solitude is your best match.
Because the person on the other side is human too, with feelings and expectations. Ignore them long enough, and one day they’ll walk away — and all you’ll be left with is regret.
Humans need relationships — we are not made of stone
No matter how strong we try to appear, deep down, we all crave connection.
We all need someone who listens without judgment, who understands even when we don’t speak, who stays not just in good times but especially when we’re broken.
That’s the essence of a real relationship.
In the end...
Relationships aren’t built on time, but on emotions.
If both people are willing to make an effort, every bond has the potential to be beautiful.
If not, even the most perfect person may find themselves drowning in loneliness.
So whether a relationship lasts a single day or a whole lifetime — it needs a genuine heart, honest intent, and a little patience. Otherwise, there’s no other option — loneliness becomes the reality.
– Rupesh Ranjan
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